Hipkin Journal

Social Communication

This week Hipkin caught up with 12 year old Inez Jost and we were absolutely taken back by her insights into the life of a teenage girl without social media!!!  Here is what she had to say....

 

Social media is overrated, period. I'm twelve years old, go to high school and have heeeeeaaaaaps of friends. What I don't have is Instagram, or Snapchat, or Facebook,  or Twitter, or basically anything. Sad right? Wrong! I couldn't care LESS! Not kidding. In saying that, it is hard. On the orientation days for year seven, you know what I'll  just show you;

Scenario uno:

a - 'Do you have Instagram?'

b - 'Yea.'

a - 'Cool. What's your username?'

b - 'person_b_'

a - 'Great. Let's be friends!'

 

Person a and b link arms and skip unknowing of FOMO, selfies and textbook peer pressure.

 

Scenario duo

a - 'Hi do you have Instagram?'

b - 'Sorry, no.'

a - 'Oh, bye."

 

Person a walks away, horrified that person b doesn't have Instagram, while person b stands there slightly depressed.

I was person b. In scenario duo. 

Lucky for me I already had friends from primary school so I made friends with the ones they had made. Isn't it awful to think that social media dictates our freedom to make friends?! I had Snapchat for under a week and it didn't really change except for the fact that my phone buzzed around 104% more than it usually did. I don't have it any more. I'm almost certain my friends will be annoyed about losing all four streaks, but I'm sure they'll get over it.. Eventually.

 

I believe social media is so dominating that it has taken over the reason phones were created ie, to communicate.

It's so bad that I have all of my friends phone numbers but nobody ever texts or calls. The only way you can communicate is when you see them face to face or through social media. This means that I can't organise to catch up with my friends unless I talk to them at school. Buuuuuuuut, nobody actually talks at recess and lunch about what they did on the weekend (it's on their snapchat story) or what book they are reading (nobody reads 'cos #boring #hateschool #phoneislife) so I don't really have a, snif snif, social life on the weekends. I'm serious nobody talks because their faces are always around five centimetres and seven milimetres away from their phones.

You wouldn't believe how boring it is. The other day at school I was sitting around a table with my friends while they looked at their phones, and one of my friends looks up and says to me, " Oh my god Inès, you look so depressed and bored!" and then she kind of laughed like it was a joke and then I wiped away my internal tears, laughed and said," Yeah that's because I am, ha ha ha!". She wasn't even listening. I don't even need to tell you why!

 

People don't experience a funny moment any more. It has to be staged or reenacted, filmed and then shared to people who aren't even actually going to laugh at it. Is there even an actual point to people my age having social media? I mean people my age don't run businesses and use it as free advertising or to promote a charity or problem, so what do they really use it for? It's not a rhetorical question. I actually want to know. I'm not saying I'm better than my friends because I don't have it or that they are awful people for having it because I know that once you get sucked in to it's vacuum it's almost impossible to escape from, I'm just saying what is happening and I have made the conscious decision to not use it and this is why.  

 

Let's talk Instagram. Now before I say anything, let's get one thing straight: everything of what I'm about is about thirty percent factual and seventy percent opinionated. Anyway, Instagram sits at the top of the social media hierarchy, wearing a facade of skinny models and weird trends, topped off with a crown of people having fears of how many people like their photos. Behind all of this, it sits on a throne of LIES! (and photoshop) Sure it's good if your running  a business (cough, @hipkinkids, follow them) and Instagram is your platform, but let's get real; you wake up in the morning and check your Insta feed and the first thing you see is a skinny girl in a bikini. So before you are even fully awake you are already not liking the way you look. Now I'm sure this won't affect you that morning or maybe even the next day, but if you see this everyday, it's gonna get to you. Who needs that in their LIVES?!

Now do me a favour, delete your social media. If that's to hard, just don't open the app. I can understand if you won't take it from me because, "who cares what a twelve year has to say?" But do just do it. Because social media is #OVERRATED

This kid is going places!!!

 

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Words by Inez Jost & pics by Monique Sverdvik

 

3 comments

Aug 04, 2017

I have 2 tween daughters. They are fascinated by technology but neither of them have social media accounts and I am really hoping they have the sense to be like Inès when they hit high school. Social media is bad for developing brains, end of story.

Beth
Jul 30, 2017

I read a lot of blogs and I have to say this is one of my favourites. I was so intrigued by what Inez has to say and how articulately she delivered her thoughts. I can’t wait to share this with my eldest daughter, who likewise isn’t on social media. I think it will help her when she enters grade 7 next year. I feel quite sorry for these kids after hearing about the reality of high school play grounds today. I loved high school lunch times – swinging off the trees, rolling around in the grass laughing and watching the boys from the school across the road through the fence. Kids these days are missing out on basic human interaction. Thanks Inez for reminding us all that it’s cool just to be you and do it your way.

Jessica Wall
Jul 30, 2017

Loving this article xxx

mon

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